Getting pregnant was not part of your plan, and now you’re deciding what to do about the baby growing inside of you. You don’t feel ready to have a baby. You may have gotten pregnant by accident, and you’re worried what others will think of you. You’re worried about what your parents or friends might say, or how they might react.
You searched for Bangor abortion clinics and it brought you to this article. You’re wondering what you should know before going to a Bangor abortion clinic, or maybe you’re concerned about the risks associated with abortion. Or maybe you weren’t aware that there were risks, and you’re just scared. That’s OK. It’s OK to be scared.
Don’t forget people love you. Your mom or dad, your friends, there are people in your life that love and care for you, and will not judge you. Think about at least one person who won’t judge you, and confide in them. First, and most importantly, you should confide in someone you trust. Don’t make this decision alone. Know that you are loved, and that you’re not alone.
Being pregnant is scary, but you don’t have to be scared because you have options.
If you think you absolutely can’t care for a baby because of your life circumstances — whether that be finishing school, the demands of your career, or you’re simply not ready to start a family — then keep in mind the many women and families who are unable to have children of their own. They would love to adopt your baby and give it a safe and happy home. Did you know there are adoption services in Bangor that would be with you every step of the way? You don’t have to go through this alone. Remember, you’re never alone.
Do you simply want someone to confide in? A shoulder to cry on? Someone who doesn’t know your name, and will keep your information private and anonymous? Did you know Bangor also has what are called crisis pregnancy centers? One pregnancy center right up the road from the Mabel Wadsworth Center on Mt Hope Avenue in Bangor is First Step Pregnancy Center. The counselors there will comfort you, and educate you on all of the options available to you.
And then there’s The Shepherd’s Godparent Home in Bangor who, along with counseling, will even provide free housing if you’re pregnant and in need of a safe place to call home. Centers like these provide you with all of your choices, and will care for your needs.
Most importantly, regardless of how you’ve gotten to this point, God loves you. And another thing — God has a plan for the baby growing inside of you. Every life is precious, and the baby growing inside of you is no exception. Your life is no exception.
If you feel you are all alone in this decision, you can always cry out to God. Simply say out loud, “God, what should I do?! God, you created this life inside of me… Why? How do I get through this?”
And don’t forget, you are never alone.